Free Will isn't free from consequences

Free will isn't free from consequences, there are no do over's in life.

From my spiritual life, inconsistent parenting styles, career frustrations, obesity, finances, failed marriages, and relationships... Jesus wasn't kidding when he said, "apart from me you can do nothing..." Every decision I make, if it doesn't align perfectly with His written will, His wisdom, His principles, even when it isn't necessarily bad or good, if I don't weigh all the possibilities, if I am for one moment intellectually lazy... sowing what you reap brutal. Life is hard, lonely, frustrating, humiliating, all in all, when you get to share a meal with a loved one, or have that moment with God, that one moment when you know he saw you, he heard you, those are far and few, but that is the Grace of God. I can barely change things, if at all, there is no alternative for whether your name is in the Lamb's book of life or not, heaven and hell are decided by your free will choice, it is your choice, my choice, seems I chose right 9 out of 10 times, but the one I get wrong is the one that counted the most.