Meditate

How to be a blessed person.

According to King David it was not walking with, fellowshipping, or taking stands (positions) with the ungodly but rather meditating on the Law of the Lord day and night. (See Psalm 1), it wasn't attendance at some gathering or listening to your favorite speaker, it wasn't small groups, or contemporary services, not women's groups or men's groups, no, it is you and the Word with no mediator or moderator. You can be blessed alone with the Word, those who attend church and ignore the Word are no better off than the unrighteous. 

Skip all church for a year and just get in the Word for a year, every line, gather with one or two of your children, break bread, give thanks, see if they walk in the truth when they are adults, we already know that statistically they don't when the grow up in church amd youth group.